How Steve Jobs's biological mother doesn't know he is dead as care home nurses believe dementia sufferer is too ill to be told
His death was one of the most widely
publicised in recent history, filling newspapers and television schedules
for days as fans worldwide united in grief.
Among the few people in the Western
world, however, who will not have heard of Steve Jobs's passing, is
perhaps the most important - his own mother.
Joanne Simpson, who reluctantly gave her
son up for adoption after falling pregnant when she was a student, is
seriously unwell in a nursing home in Los Angeles and has no idea her son
has died, MailOnline can reveal.
Biological parents: Father John Jandali never met
Jobs while it is thought mother Joanne Simpson does not know he has
died
Sources close to the family said the
Apple founder's biological mother, Joanne Simpson, 79, is tragically
battling advanced dementia.
She has very limited mental capacity and
is said barely to know who she is, let alone what has become of the son
she gave away.
Jobs was adopted in 1955 after being
born to Abdulfattah John Jandali, a Syrian man, and Joanne Schieble, who
was a graduate student at the time.
The couple were not married and keeping
him would have been deemed shameful by their communities.
Brought up by Paul and Clara Jobs, Steve
is thought to have reconciled with his mother but never to have made
contact with his biological father.
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In his renowned 2005 commencement
address at Stanford University, Jobs described how his mother signed the
adoption papers reluctantly, wanting to give him away to a well-educated
couple.
Paul Jobs was a high-school drop-out who
became a machinist and his wife Clara never graduated from
college.
Joanne Simpson eventually married
Jandali and the couple had another child, Mona Simpson, who went on to
become a famous novelist, before getting divorced. She later remarried.
'My biological mother was a young, unwed
college graduate student,' Jobs said in his speech.
Deteriorating: The Berkley East Convalescent
Hospital in Los Angeles, where Steve Jobs's birth mother, who has
dementia, is being looked after
'She felt very strongly that I should be
adopted by college graduates.'
When he grew up, Jobs found his mother
and the two kept in touch. He also forged a relationship with his
biological sister.
Despite the reconciliation, Simpson's
dementia is so serious she has no idea about her son's death.
Her condition has so far deteriorated
she is said briefly to have been admitted to a mental hospital after
neighbours reported seeing her wandering the streets half naked.
Frail: Jobs was photographed in August looking very
unwell
A source said: 'Steve was one of the
richest men in the world, but his wealth couldn’t save him and it
couldn’t save his mother.
'We used to find her wondering the
streets wearing only a house coat with nothing underneath and sometimes we
would find her wearing barely anything climbing trees in her bare
feet.
'In the end someone dropped her at a
mental hospital as they were so concerned for her wellbeing and then when
her daughter found out they eventually moved her to a nursing
home.
'She was a lovely woman so it was very
hard to see her demise. Now she is locked in her own body and barely knows
who she is let alone Steve anymore.'
Jobs knew about his birth mother's
mental condition and is said secretly to have helped her financially.
'They had reconnected in later life and
it must have been so sad for Steve watching his mum lose her mind ,
knowing there was nothing he could do about it,' the source
added.
'It was like a double heartache as there
was nothing he could do about his condition either in the end.
'While we never saw him round her house
before they moved her, what we do know is that her rent was paid for as if
by magic every month.
'And now she is in one of the best care
homes, so it doesn’t take a fool to work out who is paying for
it.'
By Paul Bentley
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